WOW this is amazing it makes me think of people who have bad memories and try to forget those bad memories try to force them away and keep going on with life I think though the only way you can move on in life is to overcome those memories weather you remember them or not getting on in life is all you can do even if your memories are horrible I think gradually as time goes and you get older time will heal even if it takes years what do you think?? but there is one thing I don't get what do you mean by "maybe it it that I cannot move forward unless I refuse to remember". ?????
Yes, I think you are correct in all you say. As for the last phrase for me it means that sometimes you cannot forgive or forget and therefore you cannot move forward, so In my case I chose to forget to be able to move.
OH WOW YH I SEE I agree in most cases I would try to forget my bad memories in order to move on which I think is better but then again I wouldn't want to be completely be ignorant of them (in my opinion anyway) sometimes I can't help it and my bad old memories will sweep back into my mind and I would think why Is this coming back but then I think in some ways that's a good thing I think sometimes remembering your bad memories for a short while can make you a better stronger person by knowing that happened in the past I can move on from it but I do believe that it depends on how bad your memories are some are just so bad or so cruel you force yourselves to forget them or sometimes you don't even need to force yourself to forget them the memory could have been that bad that you just naturally couldn't remember them bad that does take time to automatically forget them for bad memories can scar you for the rest of your life so I guess it all depends in the end I guess it's just better to forget them to move on in life
WOW this is amazing it makes me think of people who have bad memories and try to forget those bad memories try to force them away and keep going on with life I think though the only way you can move on in life is to overcome those memories weather you remember them or not getting on in life is all you can do even if your memories are horrible I think gradually as time goes and you get older time will heal even if it takes years what do you think?? but there is one thing I don't get what do you mean by "maybe it it that I cannot move forward unless I refuse to remember". ?????
ReplyDeleteYes, I think you are correct in all you say. As for the last phrase for me it means that sometimes you cannot forgive or forget and therefore you cannot move forward, so In my case I chose to forget to be able to move.
DeleteOH WOW YH I SEE I agree in most cases I would try to forget my bad memories in order to move on which I think is better but then again I wouldn't want to be completely be ignorant of them (in my opinion anyway) sometimes I can't help it and my bad old memories will sweep back into my mind and I would think why Is this coming back but then I think in some ways that's a good thing I think sometimes remembering your bad memories for a short while can make you a better stronger person by knowing that happened in the past I can move on from it but I do believe that it depends on how bad your memories are some are just so bad or so cruel you force yourselves to forget them or sometimes you don't even need to force yourself to forget them the memory could have been that bad that you just naturally couldn't remember them bad that does take time to automatically forget them for bad memories can scar you for the rest of your life so I guess it all depends in the end I guess it's just better to forget them to move on in life
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